Creative Gifts for Life’s Big Moments
We all have big moments in our life that stick with us and perhaps define us. Birthdays, a new job, a new house, or a new baby are all meaningful moments that form our deepest of memories. While there are many ways to commemorate and celebrate life’s biggest moments, it’s also useful to understand how these events develop into lasting memories. One way we create memories is by focusing on the most memorable and recent high points. Psychologists call this the peak-end rule, where people tend to form memories based on what happens at the end of an event and “smooth out” the rough edges. For example, if you were to take a trip and encountered traffic delays and bad weather, but at the very end of the trip something exceptional occurred, you’re more likely to frame the trip positively. Second, moments can be made through mindfulness. Essentially, when people pay attention to specific details of an event—be it the delicious food or maybe the thought that went into plannin...